Want to actually get into a long term relationship with someone optimal? Are the current sites too expensive, and the free version doesn’t actually work?\n Well, I thought so, and I decided to quickly throw this site together.\n There won’t be a single ad on this site, and I literally don’t even ask you for your email, you can just create an account. There are no premium features, paying money gets you nothing extra that you already get for free.\n What’s the catch? First of all, the site doesn’t look amazing. I’m not a graphic designer, and I don’t have the money to hire one.\n Your data is probably not secure, I tried my best, but I’m just one guy and this is my first website, which is why I’m not asking for your name or your email. Yeah, sorry, I’ll sprinkle in some advice for keeping anonymous, but if you are stupid enough to willingly put down your real name, social security number, address, and front door pin number, and you get murdered, well that’s just natural selection.\n If you try really hard to break the site, it probably will. Please don’t.\n Oh, this is technically a dating site, please don’t create an account if you aren’t of legal age. That’s the terms and conditions I guess. \n \n Oh, you probably want to know how this all works.\n First of all, if you thought this would be a quick and fun experience, well, it might be fun, but it definitely won’t be quick.\n Plenty of excellent dating options focused on superficiality are already on the market. If that’s what you are into, this isn’t for you.\n \n Here, you will answer hundreds of questions (yes, hundreds, sorry), about every aspect of your personality, goals, likes, dislikes, etc.\n I would assume that for the majority of topics in the world, you have an opinion, but probably not a super strong one.\n However, you definitely have stuff you do care about, as for what that exactly is, that’s entirely up to you. \n\n There are definitely going to be questions that offend you. First of all, EVERY question is optional. So, anything you aren’t comfortable answering, don’t. Second, if something does offend you, that means you care about that topic. Once you are done answering the questions, you get to filter by the answers to ANY of the questions that you want.\n For example, you can choose to look for someone who is 19 or 20, goes to one specific college, is studying law, likes dogs, wants to have 1 kid, has a sailing hobby, wants to settle down in Denver, eats meat but tries to minimize it, values family over money, likes it in the butt, and has the same movie and music tastes as you. \n It’s entirely possible that you don’t care about those topics above. Guess what, there’s hundreds to choose from, and if everyone tries their best to answer everything, then no matter how obscure your tastes, it’s likely you’ll find someone who fits.\n\n Oh, here’s another thing, most people have flaws. Unless you have zero flaws yourself, you are going to have to settle with some flaws in your chosen partner. Of course, you can choose which types of flaws you are willing to tolerate and possibly fix. Perhaps you don’t mind a bit of a mess, but you can’t stand a racist. Perhaps you prefer a bit of edginess, and you can’t stand someone who is sensitive, and can tolerate living in poverty. That’s up to you to decide. In any case, plenty of questions will force you to confront your weaknesses. Answer honestly, because other people aren’t stupid, an entirely perfect profile is probably a catfish. \n\n Furthermore, although most of the questions are multiple choice types, to make it easier to filter, there is an ELABORATION box for EVERY question. It’s near impossible to create enough questions to capture everyone’s essence perfectly. You also wouldn’t want to answer the tens of thousands of questions that would require. Although for questions like “when were you born”, there’s probably not much you want to say, there’s definitely questions you’d want to elaborate on. As for which, that will be up to you to decide. However, some elaboration will be mandatory. For, once someone filters their list down to a few final contenders, they can look at your full profile. Let’s just pop an obvious example. One of the questions is “Do you eat meat?”. The options are:\n I eat lots of meat \n I eat normal amounts of meat\n I try to eat less meat\n I don’t eat meat at all\n Do those choices perfectly capture your opinion on meat? It’s designed to be close, but it’s likely not perfectly you. If this is a topic you care about, you’d probably want to elaborate. If not, there definitely are topics you care about, and should write your full opinion on those.\n Speaking of options, there will almost certainly be an option for at least one of the questions that offends you. I tried to write options that reflect the opinions of everyone. That doesn’t mean I agree with every choice, or even believe it should be up for debate. The problem is, there are people that care about such topics, and my goal is to match you with your optimal mate. I tried not to be overtly offensive, but here’s the thing, such people exist, and in order for you to find your optimal mate, you need to be able to avoid/find those people. Also, if a choice truly offends you, one of the filter options is to EXCLUDE anyone that picks that particular option.\n Being offended is a good sign this is something you should take into account when looking for a potential partner.\n\n To encourage you to choose wisely, once you’ve filled out your profile, and you’ve put in your desired filters, you can only reach out to ONE PERSON AT A TIME.\n\n Once you’ve chosen someone, read their entire profile, and decided it’s up to your standards, you have to wait until that person accepts, or rejects your invitation to talk, before you can reach out to another person.\n In the meantime, if you find someone better, and your previous choice hasn’t responded, you’ll have to withdraw your application and reach out to your new crush.\n Oh, the person actually sees your entire profile, so be reasonable. Most people would love to date a beautiful, millionaire philanthropist who went to a top 3 university, and lives a fulfilling and luxurious life. But those people would likely not be interested in an alcoholic high school dropout with no skills in a dead end job and no interests besides streaming video games to 0-2 viewers. I’m not saying streaming is bad, it's only bad if it's your sole personality trait, and yet you still suck at it.\n Lower your standards, and you still might be happy getting drunk and hanging out with a similar loser. I’d say no offense, but I’m not sorry, get your life together.\n Once you do match with your optimal mate, you can’t actually chat on this site. You are supposed to just send 1 message with your contact information on your desired “real” social media that you want to talk on. Phone number, email, discord, snapchat, I don’t care, that’s your problem now. I’ll try and ensure your messages are deleted as soon as possible, because remember that part where I said I didn’t spend anything on security? Take your non-anonymous conversations elsewhere.\n\n One more thing. Let’s say your profile takes off. Lucky you. However, you can only view one suitor at a time, the person that asked first. You have to accept or reject that person before you can view the rest.\n Furthermore, before a person sends a message, they can see how many people are on your waiting list, and they can decide for themselves if it’s worth it. And remember, people can withdraw their invitations if you take forever, so decide quickly.\n\n Anyway, that’s how this site works. In order for it to work better, I would prefer you tell your single friends this exists. With a large enough user base, anyone can find their optimal match.\n Finally, you can see that I’m not trying to screw you over. You can’t pay for a single feature that a free user doesn’t have access to. I don’t collect your information, because with no email or phone number, I have no clue who you are. But, in order for me to pay server costs, and maybe buy something cool for myself if this goes super well, you can voluntarily donate whatever you want. Like, if you actually meet your soulmate because of this, I’d say it’s not greedy of me to ask you to donate a couple bucks for helping you find true love. If you are super poor, you can still text some friends, because even if you don’t want to date your current friends, someone else does, and perhaps you’d want to date their friends.\n Oh, I’m not a miracle worker. If you are simply unsuitable for dating, I can’t help you. In which case, I paid a fraction of a penny in server costs for you to know that in your current state there isn’t a single person that uses this site that is willing to put up with you. But hey, maybe you’ll pick up enough knowledge here to eventually be suitable for mating.\n